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An insightful and empowering read, offering a unique first-person narrative of a\nman who struggles with connection and perspective-taking, and has mirror
\nchallenges. Many men\u2014especially those who identify with traits often associated
\nwith the autism spectrum\u2014may face these in marriage and relationships.\u201d
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\u2014 <\/em>Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes<\/strong>, Certified Autism Specialist and podcast host <\/p>\n One great resource is Brian Hight\u2019s ‘An Intentional Marriage<\/strong>.’ By prioritizing your relationship and taking the time to understand your neurotypical spouse’s needs, you can create a loving and fulfilling partnership that brings you both happiness and fulfillment. Brian brings this to light in a very compassionate and descriptive message in his book. Thank you, Brian!<\/em><\/p>\n – Mark Hutten<\/strong>, M.A. in Counseling Psychology, Autism Expert and Therapist.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n – Helen B<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I wholeheartedly recommend it to those serious about fostering genuine connections and enriching their interactions with others. Let Brian Hight inspire you to embark on your journey of intentional living; the rewards, as he assures, are well worth the effort.<\/em><\/p>\n – Mike Wilson, <\/strong>Pastor (retired) Engage Church Napier, NZ<\/p>\n <\/p>\n – Diana Kirton<\/strong>, CBT Practitioner, PostGradDiploma in Health Science (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy), Member ANZCBT<\/p>\n <\/p>\n – Dan Purcell<\/strong>, Licensed Marriage Therapist, founder and host of “Get Your Marriage On” podcast.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n – Robin Tate<\/strong>, M.A., M.S., BCC, ACC, CAS, Neurodiverse Couples Coach, Autism\/ADHD Life Coach<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I have been on this journey for 8 years and found great practical advice and tips for moving forward in a positive manner. I wish that I had the tools this book provides at the beginning of my own journey.” <\/em><\/p>\n – Greg R<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" What others say… An insightful and empowering read, offering a unique first-person narrative of a man who struggles with connection and perspective-taking, and has mirror challenges. Many men\u2014especially those who identify with traits often associated with the autism spectrum\u2014may face …<\/span> Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":842,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-972","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=972"}],"version-history":[{"count":32,"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/972\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1574,"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/972\/revisions\/1574"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/842"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.faithandpractice.nz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nof\u00a0NeuroDiverse Christian Couples, Contributing Author and Editor of\u00a0Uniquely Us:
\nGracefully Navigating the Maze of NeuroDiverse Marriage<\/p>\n
\nNavigating a marriage with an autistic spouse can be both rewarding and challenging. Brian illustrates why it’s important to prioritize the needs of your spouse and take the time to understand their perspective. Brian illustrates why it’s important to prioritize the needs of your spouse and take the time to understand their perspective. There are many resources and strategies available to help couples with an autistic spouse build a strong and supportive relationship.<\/span><\/span> <\/em><\/p>\n
\nThe best book I’ve ever read about relationships
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<\/a>Hight’s revelations are not just confined to the realm of marital relationships but extend to all forms of human connections. The tools and insights he shares are invaluable, grounded in the real-life application and driven by a genuine desire to effect change. This book is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone looking to enhance their relationships, making ‘An Intentional Marriage<\/strong>‘ a must-read. <\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/a>I highly recommend ‘An Intentional Marriage’<\/strong> to anyone wanting to enrich a relationship<\/em>
\nthey treasure. Through his own reflections, curiosity and brutal honesty, the author has<\/em>
\ncreated a valuable and insightful resource for anyone seeking down-to-earth guidance.<\/em>
\nThe Toolbox is a gem. It takes courage to open it, but be brave, the rewards are plentiful.”<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/a>In ‘An Intentional Marriage’<\/strong>, Brian shares a pearl of wisdom that applies to every couple: to take full responsibility for their part in their relationship and live with more intention. This isn’t just a book full of good ideas (although it certainly has many good, practical ideas). It’s written by a man who has lived the\u00a0ideas. Brian is an inspiration to every couple that no longer wants to be emotionally drifting apart. Brian’s specific insight on ASD-1 individuals is also helpful, and a testament that anyone can enjoy a more intimate marriage by following the principles Brian outlines in his book.”<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/a>A fiercely vulnerable and in-depth view of the internal obstacles, fear-based resistance, and growth process of one Autistic man within marriage. Brian uniquely articulates how his internal thinking, personality, and life history translate into external behaviors in his marriage. His journey is one of self-discovery and the unearthing of personal strengths and challenges. Brian\u2019s \u201cintentional\u201d desire to connect with his wife has created a tool that models the compassion, bravery, and self-responsibility, necessary for a relationship to thrive. I am excited to recommend this book to anyone ready to grow within themselves and their understanding of Neurodiverse or Neuro-typical marriage.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/a>There is plenty of gold in this book for any who have accepted their ASD-1 diagnosis and are wondering what to do now. The book is easy to read, full of accurate descriptions, authentic experience, and great advice and suggestions. It will help many to navigate the journey from stuck to growth in their marriage relationship. <\/em>The focus on intentionality from an Aspie perspective is very helpful as are many of the discussions \u2014 honesty, attitudes, and facing fear to mention a few.\u00a0 <\/em><\/p>\n
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